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  • Tom Baker 8:46 am on May 16, 2012 COMMENT
    Tags: European Riverboat Cruise, Scenic Crystal   

    The New Scenic Crystal – European River Cruise! 

    One of the fastest growing segments in travel is European river cruising. This is quite different from ocean travel and port hopping that the bigger ships offer worldwide. The big difference is these long (360-440 foot long) cigar looking boats ply the European Rivers and carry anywhere from 118-200 passengers depending on the line. As a matter of fact, this exciting form of river travel typically sells out nearly a year in advance due to the limited capacity of these small boat-ships and there just isn’t similar capacity comparing to those larger ocean-going vessels.

    I was invited to attend the christening and preview of a different type of river boat-Scenic Cruises new 169-passenger Scenic Crystal. This 443 foot long, 4 deck vessel offers a nearly all-suite, all-inclusive experience.

    Scenic Cruises is a division of Australian mega-luxury tour operator, Scenic Tours. This fast-growing highly respected company is equivalent to Tauck Tours in the USA and is wholly owned by 42 year old Aussie entrepreneur, Glen Moroney. He started tours not too long ago by operating bus tours to see Phantom of the Opera in Melbourne and saw the need for an upscale tour company-VOILA!

    Moroney decided to build his own boats to his companies own specifications after successfully chartering lesser boats in the mid 2000 era and decided to build his own luxury vessel after a client pulled him aside on a chartered tour and told him that the boat they were on was not up to the Scenic Tours fine standards. Today, Scenic has 6 virtually identical luxury vessels with 82% of all suites having a true private balcony. These vessels carry 169 passengers but have exceptionally large cabins that average 205 square feet. The normal cabin is only 135-160 square feet. Scenic features a very clean and crew friendly experience onboard. The décor is more Scandinavian meets B&B Italia and not overdone by any means. The crew makes the experience very personal and the food quality is very high. Scenic even operates its own fleet of luxury coaches that follow the boats along the river to provide guests with a consistent quality experience along the way during the daily sightseeing tours! While onboard, the experience is virtually all-inclusive with all tips, sightseeing, meals, and most beverages included. NEW FOR 2013, all cabins on all soon to be 7 boats will have butlers with room service and will become truly all-inclusive with alcoholic beverages included too! WOW!

    The Scenic Crystal is unique in the fleet with its “Space Ship” appearance and Exclusive “Scenic Sun Lounge” wherein all balcony cabins can become enclosed with a sliding glass partition that can be quickly raised or lowered by the push of a button creating a solarium or open balcony at the guests’ whim or due to a weather change.

    Cabins/suites are downright spacious with large slumber beds, a pillow menu, room service, amazing butler service, large bathroom and an amazing shower with its own mood lighting… The greatest feature was the innovative interactive Apple TV complete with complimentary internet and fast internet-I might add. Most other boats and competitors ask guest to go to an internet “corner” to use computers and are not connected like this amazing technological wonder. Internet was FREE everywhere and it worked great! My butler, Andréa, was a dream and brought my personally made pot of coffee with six espresso shots and delicious 2 chocolate croissants daily at 7am and was a welcome wake-up call each day.

    The meals onboard were delicious. Breakfast and lunch are buffet style with an option to order entrees from a daily menu. Dinner is served along with the buffet used for extensive salad bar, sushi, and desserts. The preparation was gorgeous. Scenic also offers a River Café in the main lounge that offers a variety of “to-go” items throughout the day and was akin to a luxury Bistro. There are coffee and tea stations, and a complimentary reservation based superb Italian optional dining room called Portobello’s.

    Cruising along the European rivers is unique and offers extensive sightseeing options. The days can be quite long if one opts to take all the exciting tour options as I did. My days were full of superbly guided tours to the old cities of Germany and France. This type of cruising is quite special as you have choices for full historical sightseeing, visits to private homes or winery’s, and on every trip Scenic offers at least one evening tour of a spectacular German Castle with a tour, cocktail party, and gala dinner with excellent music or opera provided. All of this is included in your price! The boat offers bicycles for a nice ride if you have free time, and even GPS self-guided tours for those not wanting a guided experience for self-exploration. You can even have a massage or work out in the small but well equipped fitness center onboard!

    I loved this experience as it was intimate, offered a unique experience in the heart of Europe, gave a personal and warm travel experience with NO LINES, and was like traveling on a yacht…

    My cruise ran from convenient Rudesheim (near Frankfurt) in Germany and ended in Basel, Switzerland. I headed home from Zurich after spending the night at the remarkable Dolder Grand Hotel. Now this is a ultra-luxury and very special hotel set in the foothills about Zurich with the Alps in the near distance!

    This cruise is scenic, interesting, historical, and offers a wonderful alternative to ocean going vessels. The prices are a bit higher than normal cruises but remember it is all-inclusive and yacht like. This is no Royal Caribbean or Holland America type of travel experience. It is very special with rates averaging $350pp a day+.

    I was fortunate to see some of the other competitors and while there are some good river companies, I suggest you look at Scenic, Tauck Tours, Uniworld, and AMA Waterways only. The others PALE by comparison! If you are going to take this trip, take a river cruise with the BEST!

    Happy River Cruising!

    Photos: © Tom Baker | CruiseCenter

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  • Randall Shirley 8:24 pm on May 6, 2012 COMMENT  

    Have you ever seen a volcano from a cruise ship? 

    What unusual things have you seen from the deck of a cruise ship? Has a captain ever made you feel you saw something special? Comment below!

    As you’re likely aware, Mark and Dale have just returned from a cruise around the Mediterranean onboard the Norwegian Cruise Lines Jade. You can read about many of their adventures on the Muster Station. And did you know, you could post your own cruise memories and experiences there, too?

    Hearing of Mark’s cruise brings back Mediterranean memories of my own.

    The Azamara Club Cruises Quest anchored off Sorrento, Italy

    Azamara Club Cruises Quest anchored off Sorrento, Italy, the morning after the ship took us past Mount Stromboli during magnificent eruption. Photo © Randall Shirley

    Seeing a volcano erupt from the deck of a cruise ship was hardly what Denni and I expected when we booked our Mediterranean cruise onboard Azamara Club Cruises Quest. But that was one of the “extras” that Captain Carl Smith helped happen for us and our 700-ish shipmates last fall.

    Late in the evening as Azamara Quest sailed between Taormina, Sicily, and Sorrento on the Italian mainland, we passed by the volcano island of Stromboli. Captain Carl chose to navigate around the dark side of the island, keeping the ship at a safe distance, with the hopes that if the volcano was erupting we’d be able to see it better.

    Just as the show was ending in the main theatre, passengers clamored to the decks and we all watched in awe as Stromboli put on quite a show, spewing several plumes of lava high into the Italian night sky. The orange-glowing lava continued to be visible as it rolled down the side of the volcano to the sea.

    Captain Carl was on the bridge wings watching the show, and said in all his times passing Stromboli, he’d never seen such a magnificent performance by the volcano. Someone on the main deck hollered at the captain, “We love you Captain Carl!”

    Smith shouted back, “And I love my job!”

    Seeing Stromboli erupt was just one special moment on that cruise. Going hiking with the ship’s captain was another. Read about that here.

    Moments like this are why I love to cruise. You never know where you’ll find them, but I’m certainly planning to cruise Azamara again. And Mark & Dale seem to have had a particularly wonderful experience on the Norwegian Jade.

    What unusual things have you seen from the deck of a cruise ship? Has a captain ever made you feel you saw something special? Comment below!

     

    *Note: as is customary in the professional travel writing industry, the author received complimentary travel on Azamara Club Cruises. The author strives to remain unbiased in his reviews. Please see our full disclosure statement here.

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  • Randall Shirley 7:03 pm on April 5, 2012 COMMENT  

    Cruising Seattle? Consider this gay-interest shore excursion 

    Janet Flanner by Berenice Abbott

    Berenice Abbot, "Janet Flanner," 1927. Photographic print. 9 1/2 x 7 3/8 inches. Prints and Photographs Division, Library of Congress, Washington, D.C. © Berenice Abbott/Commerce Graphics, New York. Used with permission of Tacoma Art Museum.

    If you’re cruising through Seattle during the upcoming Alaska cruise season, consider a side trip to Tacoma. Where? Yes, Tacoma, the city with which Seattle shares its airport, the “Tac” in Sea-Tac. While Tacoma doesn’t exactly boast the tourism cachet of Seattle, Portland, or Vancouver, up until mid-June the Tacoma Art Museum is hosting the only West Coast exhibit of the Smithsonian’s HIDE/SEEK: Difference and Desire in American Portraiture. The show runs through June 10, 2012.

    According to a press release, the exhibit is “The first major exhibition to explore how gender identity and sexual orientation have shaped modern American portraiture, HIDE/SEEK offers an unprecedented survey of nearly 150 years of American art with more than 100 works by masters including Thomas Eakins, John Singer Sargent, Georgia O’Keeffe, Andy Warhol, Jasper Johns, and more.”

    It’s getting some great press buzz. Check it out at the museum’s website.

    Packages for this exhibit are being offered by the gay-friendly, upscale Hotel Murano, which is only three blocks from the Tacoma Art Museum. The hotel has been described as a “museum unto itself with a world-class collection of glass art displayed throughout the property.” Their package includes two tickets to HIDE/SEEK at the Tacoma Art Museum, plus free Wifi, parking, a food/beverage voucher, and a commeorateive HIDE/SEEK book. More info on this package is availabe at the Murano website

    The HIDE/SEEK package is available for Wednesday-Sunday stays through June 10, 2012. Rates start at $219, per night, plus tax. To book, call 866-986-8083 or visit Murano.com.

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    • John 10:41 am on April 7, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      The Pacific Northwest is also known around the world for its glass. The Museum of Glass in Tacoma is not to be missed.

      http://museumofglass.org/

  • Tom Baker 3:26 pm on March 30, 2012 COMMENT
    Tags: Disney, Disney Fantasy   

    Review: The new Disney Fantasy 

    Photo: Disney Cruise Lines

    In a world of hundreds of cruise choices, bargains, and confusion among cruise line brands, one cruise line stands out above the rest.

    Disney Cruise Line has launched a pair of amazing 130,000 ton, 4000 passengers, longer than 4 football fields, and 14 decks high. The twins Disney Dream (launched last year), and Disney Fantasy (launched in 2012), are the grand liners built for the 21st century with a touch of yesteryear!

    I was fortunate to spend three days on the new Disney Fantasy during a preview cruise to top producing travel professionals and the jury was easily reflected in the accolades from all passengers I spoke with that this company offers the BEST contemporary or premium cruise experience…period! It’s not just for families with kids and grandkids but is a line suited for anyone looking for a true high quality 5-Star experience.

    I would recommend this line to anyone seeking fun and quality.

    Disney built these ships at a cost of some $780 million each and apparently sent in  its  Imagineers to add, enhance, and make the ship a true Disney product with no expense spared and the added costs have not been shared with the public. Once onboard, you’ll experience the fine detail of workmanship, technology, and quality. It does not get any better.

    Disney Cruises are significantly more expensive than many other ships and I have heard many qualms from clients about that as to how can they sell their cruises for that compared to other lines. I think the prices they charge are worth every penny. Disney gives that much more.

    It’s about the perfect service, fine dining, much larger accommodations than virtually all other cruise lines, sublime entertainment options, and a ship dedicated to superlative decor, design, and add-in Disney’s Magic! I left this preview cruise and gave the ship a perfect 10 out of 10 rating!

    I was overwhelmed by the amazing options for kids of all ages, adult only areas and entertainment options, as well as Disney’s Magical entertainment options.

    Check out my photo link of interior and exterior photos taken during the cruise:

    This is a ship that one could spend a week on and still not be able to complete all the entertainment options. Some of my highlights were as follows:

    • Seamless transfers to and from the airport to the port with complete luggage delivery including airline bag check-in;
    • Perfect embarkation and splendid pier facilities in Port Canaveral;
    • A ship with immaculate decor and interior design;
    • Broadway class entertainment that rivals the best of the best;
    • The largest standard cabins at sea-an best decorated with a bathroom and a half configuration! Cabins average 268 square feet;
    • Incredibly friendly and well-trained international staff that love being working for Disney;
    •Spectacular fireworks display and Pirates of the Caribbean outdoor show & deck party;
    • First run movies in 3D or Dolby 7.1 sound, live ABC and ESPN feed, and the best large screen TV on deck showing Disney movies and entertainment;
    • The Aqua-Duck “water-coaster” that traverses some 765 feet above and around the ship-really great FUN;
    • Spectacular dining entertainment each night in the three progressive theme main dining rooms;
    • Upscale adults only sun decks, pools, and bar nightclub areas;
    •Disney’s Private Island Castaway Cay in the Bahamas offers a perfect beach day for all guests with un-ending options of things to do!

    All-in-all, this product works well for everyone. If you are an adult and have tried other lines, come to Disney Cruise line. It will exceed your expectations. If you are a family, come to Disney Cruise lines as the whole family will be royally treated and entertained. It isn’t a ship with screaming or unruly kids. I think Disney maintains dignity and its programs are so superb, they entertain kids of all ages so well, that there is no added time for trouble as experienced on other ships.

    I am ready to go back.

    HAPPY CRUISING !

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    • Krystal rogers 12:03 pm on April 26, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      I fully agree with you by just looking at the pictures, but I will be on the Fantasy on May 11th . 2012, I can’t wait. I’ve being lucky enough to be on Queen Marry11, but looking at Disney Fantasy, It seems to be even more astonishing.
      I truly agree with your ratings 100%.

    • Peter 8:37 pm on May 9, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      Great article Tom. Thanks for sharing!

  • markdale 9:33 pm on March 22, 2012 COMMENT
    Tags: , , , Dominica   

    Atlantis cruisers arrested in Dominica: Our Thoughts 

    Some of us are old enough to remember the “Point/Counterpoint” segment on “60 MINUTES” where opposing viewpoints were presented on current issues. Of course later there was Siskel and Ebert, but now here are Mark and Dale!

    We each reached different conclusions concerning the gay male couple who were recently arrested on an Atlantis Events cruise while docked in Dominica due to having sex on their balcony while being visible to people on shore.

    DALE:  My thought is that a good traveler needs to conform as much as possible to the culture in which he is a guest.  “Guest” is a key word here.

    MARK:  I totally agree with that and I have seen the ‘Ugly American’ on most of my international trips. I believe what the two men did was highly inappropriate.  Atlantis isn’t to blame, only the individuals involved.

    Their actions would have been looked upon negatively in every part of the world. This was an example of where cruisers didn’t behave with the respect that a guest should display.

    DALE:  So do you think LGBT people should avoid Dominica because of this incident?

    MARK:  I don’t want to spend my hard-earned dollars in a country which is blatantly anti-gay. Likewise, I also choose not to support certain corporations due to their discrimination or employment policies. I frankly don’t see the difference.

    DALE:  But LGBT travelers visiting these less-than-gay-friendly cultures can be a positive thing. We can show by example that we as gay people are not a threat.  America’s tolerance has increased due to the fact that so many gays are now out. With so many people knowing a gay family member, friend, or co-worker, we have made allies of many who were once intolerant. This would not have happened if we remained ‘invisible’.

    MARK:  So would you go to Dominica?

    DALE:  Yes. I believe we could make a difference by being there and acting appropriately for that region of the world.  Would you go there Mark?

    MARK:  No. With all of the options out there, I would choose not to visit a place that I view as extremely homophobic. You’re right, we can make this world a better place by showing a good example. However, I can’t condone supporting anti-gay countries or institutions.

    We’d love to know your feeling on this. Please add your comments. Here’s a list of countries where it’s illegal to be gay.

     

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    • Dave Cantrall 7:42 am on March 23, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      Hi Mark and Dale,

      Thanks for posting this on the Meet Me On Board Website. I first heard about it on KTVU in San Francisco.

      Here is what I think:
      a) I will not travel to countries who are expressively against gay people and who have laws which make it a crime just to be gay.
      b) HOWEVER, I personally think the gay male couple who had sex on their balcony in view of others is outrageous and grossly inappropriate.
      I also believe heterosexual couples having sex in plain view is also grossly inappropriate – which does occur on cruise ships as well, but we just don’t hear or read about it.

      Dave

    • Randall 10:46 am on March 23, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      I love this point/counterpoint. See more information on countries where being gay is, in some form, illegal, by clicking here.

    • Joseph 11:34 am on March 24, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      The reports stating they were having sex on their balcony are incorrect. They were arrested for “buggery” but charged with indecent exposure – going on their balcony nude. You can read the Atlantis fan page on Facebook and see some statements by the guys who were arrested. The way the entire case was handled exposes some pretty entrenched anti-gay bigotry on the part of the Dominican establishment. I am less inclined to travel on a cruise that goes through Dominica now, but I think this also is a reminder that gay guys who travel to foreign countries outside of Western Europe or North America need to be very careful about attention they attract and local attitudes about gay people.

      • Robert 12:08 pm on March 24, 2012 Permalink | Reply

        I fully agree with you Joseph. I hope we in the gay community start boycotting these places that are so blatantly anti-gay. My question would be…if 2,000 gay men stop at this island that is so bigoted, why the $$%%$# wouldn’t Atlantis or Celebrity warn them. Beyond that…why would you go there in the first place?

      • Roger 11:07 am on April 10, 2012 Permalink | Reply

        Joseph, these two men were having sex on their balcony. I have seen the pictures of them and would be happy to forward them to you. They were fortunate that they were not charged with buggery because it would have been a felony. Dominica reduced it to indecent exposure to appease Atlantis and Celebrity. If you have ever been on an Atlantis cruise you would know that they tell you repeatedly to use discretion when in a foreign port. These two cruisers were arrested for having sex in public, not because they were gay. They could just as easily been arrested in Miami. In most of the world it is illegal to have sex in public. For them to blame Dominica is ridiculous.
        Second question is should a gay cruise to to anti-gay ports. That is a more difficult question for me. It certainly would knock out a large portion of the cruise destinations if they eliminate all gay unfriendly ports.

    • Robert 12:04 pm on March 24, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      Rich’s initial response to this incident was that these guys were having sex on the balcony with all to view. Obviously, this would of been inappropriate in any country and was beyond the control of Atlantis. I am now reading more and more articles where this was NOT the truth. The men simply exited their balcony for a short period and were arrested for indecent exposure. After being put in the police officers car, mobs of people surrounded the car and it became very intense and frightful. The more I read about this, it is apparent that this event took place purely due to hatred of gays. I would NEVER go to Dominica and woud hope that we as gays boycott any country that is so down right hateful. Be careful Atlantis cruisers…things are going in a dangerous direction now in St. Petersburg Russia where you’ll be sailing this summer.

    • Angel 6:41 am on March 25, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      I was in the cruise and Atlantis did not tell us it was a crime t o be gay in Dominica im up set they put us in that risk. I think is stupid to take 2000 gay guys to a homophobic destination. honestly when you are in a gay environment such a gay cruise yo can easily forget that you are not living in a gay world. There were other passengers who told during a game they had sex in the balcony while in the sea.

    • Jason 10:08 am on March 25, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      I wasn’t on this cruise so obviously, I don’t know all the facts and don’t know if we ever will. Having said that, I do agree with Angel and wonder why Atlantis would send 2,000 gay men in a party atmosphere to such a homophobic country. With the recent anti-gay laws that are threatening St. Petersburg Russia, this is another destination that is no longer safe to travel to. Will Atlantis be traveling there in July?

      • Ron 10:24 am on April 10, 2012 Permalink | Reply

        Good points Jason, I host travel for professional gay men in my city and def take the time to explain why I don’t go to certain countries. I established long ago that I never travel or recommend Jamaica. Simply because to be gay there is to be dead. More gay men and travel industry providers need to re-evaluate there itineraries. Maybe even educating the clients and providing an alternative on-board activity and not spend dollars in the guilty ports of call.

    • Peter 12:27 am on March 27, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      How truly “tolerant” is the US? As a Canadian gay man, married equally and legally on Canadian soil, who chooses to also live in beautiful South Florida (15 minutes from the cruise port I might add), I have witnessed my fair share of bigotry. Ever try walking hand-in-hand with your husband on the streets, malls and other public venues of Florida? Other than within the safe confines of a gay bar or strolling South Beach, we are stared upon, commented on by fellow citizens. Ever notice exactly how many gay couples are even comfortable holding hands – period. Gay friends have actually said to us, “It’s okay for you guys, because you’re big men; we’d be asking for trouble for flaunting who we are of we did the same”. Hearing “faggots!” yelled from passing cars while walking your own neighborhood, will not discourage us from continuing the same PDAs our hetero compatriots enjoy so freely. There’s the real irony: The “land of the free” is not so free for everyone. Public sex belongs in the proper place, and I think we have yet to hear the entire story… somewhere between what’s been said and what happened lies the truth. Another country may certainly be more repressive than the US, but let’s not kid ourselves if we think America is not without its bias. And would this have even occurred if the couple in question was straight? Perhaps… but I am more inclined to believe there would admiring crowds of onlookers, cheering for more while the iphone snaps away. I feel sorry for how this couple – and the many others who have been unjustly treated before them. Live freely as you are… proudly hold your lover’s hand… and know one day they will all be desensitized to our actions and it will be the normal non-issue of days gone.

      • Michael Schmidt 11:53 pm on April 26, 2012 Permalink | Reply

        Rob, Thank you very much for your comments! That is exactly how it is. We do live as Second Class Citizens in this country. I also guarantee that had it been a STRAIGHT couple, they would have snickered and laughed. I did 3 Atlantis Cruises and its a floating WHITE PARTY. I had a great time and never had to worry about getting hit on, hands going everywhere.

        You pay DOUBLE for Atlantis and I think they pick the ports, they know the passenger types and quite honestly some of those Islands have quirky laws. Grand Caymon if you take your shirt off they arrest you for indecent exposure.

        I am not going sit here and listen to ATLANTIS Cruisers act like the cruise is a CHUCH CAMP! LOL

    • Rob 10:13 am on March 27, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      The story these men are telling anyone who will listen seems less than credible and is evolving over time. When they were interviewed by the AP in Puerto Rico after they got out of jail, they refused to say whether they were having sex or not, which seems a de facto admission they were. They have also variously claimed to have been nude or semi-nude. On the Atlantis FB page, some Atlantis pax claim to have seen the couple having sex on their balcony and they say the couple did not stop when they realised they had been seen. The owner of Atlantis also made this claim initially.

      I really regret that the impression the world has of gay cruisers is the image of the Atlantis party cruiser, which seems to hit the media as often as Atlantis hits the seas these days. Atlantis fans will tell you “it happens on all the lines” but really, when is the last time you heard of a suicide on an R Family cruise or a drug overdose on an Olivia cruise or a Pied Piper Cruise to a homophobic country. That these inappropriate and unwise people have become the most visible face of gay cruising brings me shame. When straight friends hear we are going on a cruise and ask if we’re going with “that” company, we are quick to say no and they are quick to appear obviously relieved.

    • Jack & Dan 10:21 am on March 27, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      We are in our 60′s and love to travel. We have been together for more then 19 years. When traveling all people, gay or straight, need to use common sense. There is a time and place for enjoying sex and publicly on a balcony is not one of them. Should the gay couple been arrested – YES(as well as any other straight couple). There are so many beautiful islands in the Caribbean and Dominica is certainly not one of our top picks. Yes, Atlantis should pick their ports more wisely. But, us gay or straight men and women should be held responsible for our actions and should always remember we are guests in these ports – this is not our private back yard to do as we please.

      Jack & Dan

    • Daryl Seamark 10:44 am on March 27, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      I think we all agree that we perfer to spend our money where we are welcome, i.e. gay establishments, gay friendly islands or cities. Maybe it is my way of thinking but I find it hard to believe that you can put upwards of 2,000 gay men together and NOT get a few, that think “to hell with the rules and how it looks, lets just do it. If they don’t like it, that is their problem”. Thre is plenty of opportunity on an all gay cruise to get together with other guys. Why is it necessary to flaunt being gay. Why is it necessary to hold hands, embrace except in certain circumstances, if this is not considered proper in certain countries, or states for that matter. . I’ve been married for 30 years (even before it was legal here in Canada) and have wanted on occasion to show my affection for my spouse in public but have not due to local customs and It doesn’t matter if we are gay, straight, bi, or transgendered. If the two guys involved plan on having sex or even play nude on the front lawn at home, regardless of where they live, they are going to be arrested, guaranteed.. What makes them think it is okay in Dominica.

    • Damon 10:47 am on March 27, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      As a local LGBT activist in the Caribbean and a fellow Atlantis cruiser, I was insulted by this irresponsible behaviour. 2000+ of us on the Atlantis cruise have now been tarnished with the same dirty brush. Also spare a thought of the fall out this will cause for me and my fellow gay people throughout the islands moving forwards, whilst those individuals are now ensconced in the safety of their ‘free world’ crying victim of homophobia, rather than having been dealt with for an act of indecency. That is what the final charges were. The initial charge of buggery was dropped. In my opinion, that was sent to them as a warning shot – because it is a heavily punishable offense in most of the islands. Buggery is the act of anal sex – not just male on male, I might add! I am incandescent with rage at the hypocrisy of all banging the drum of protest without knowing the facts, or better yet, speaking to the local gay community to know what we really face day to day, and the fight for progress that has now been pushed back years as a result of this stupidity. This issue is about lewd behaviour and gross indecency in public. It has been sensationalised by the fact that it happened in a country still with anti gay legislation. Atlantis or not, gay people CHOOSE to visit many of the islands independently and of own free will. They don’t get their kit off and get busy in public. When visiting they are generally met with curiosity (sometimes in the guise of a verbal taunt), if not met with a welcome. Believe it or not, it’s a small minority who are vehement, aggressive and/or violent in their opposition towards gay people. That is the same world wide – I have experienced it in the US and the UK, and Europe. Africa even worse with the death sentence trying to be imposed in some countries. We need to keep a perspective on this incident. We are struggling to have our laws changed in the islands, but ironically no one has been arrested for being gay, and even now, I still say so. The arrests made were not because these two were gay. They were arrested for being idiots making a public display of what should have been private. You can help us by being role models in society which the vast majority of the guys I met demonstrated. Social responsibility rests with each and every one of us, wherever in the world you may be. Surely if I went cruising in a park somewhere in the US, got caught with my pants down, I’d be arrested in your free gay friendly world, deported and have my US visa revoked and unable to return due to a misdemeanour or felony or whatever level is dealt. Let’s stop the hypocrisy and sitting in our ivory towers thinking that all is well in our gardens!

      • Michael Schmidt 11:48 pm on April 26, 2012 Permalink | Reply

        Oh Sister get off the soap box. I have been on 3 Atlantis Cruises and its all a big drink, drug, screw for 7 days. To act like its not anything else is just not being truthful. That why we went on the darn things because our neighbors went every years and we heard all the wild tells and up in the Toplesss bathing area at night you could see the book store action. Rich Cambell knew better. Stop booking Homophobe Islands and stick with those that are friendly.

    • Tom 11:02 am on March 27, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      I was on this cruise. I blame Atlantis for booking this port because of past problems (protests, rocks being thrown at the ship, etc.). I blame Atlantis for not being up front with their guests about the severity of homophobia in Dominica. The Atlantis cruise director was advising that “Dominica isn’t all that for strolling, shopping and eating, so if you’re going to get off the boat, you really should book an excursion” – in other words, don’t mix with the locals who are so homophopic they will insult you to your face, just get on a tour led by someone who can deal with it because they know they are making money from you. Only the Atlantiis cruise director didn’t put it that way. They were purposefully evasive about the environment and safety of their passengers. Fortunately, we heard from others about the past experiences, and we didn’t get off the ship. Unfortunately, we heard many stories from those that did go ashore. Taxis refused to take a gay couple as passengers. Local radio was appealing to residents to protest. Merchants told perspective customers that they were sickening and perverted. That Atlantis took us there after the previous trip shows very poor judgement on their part.

      Frankly, the arrest of the two men doesn’t have much impact on my opinion of Dominica since I don’t really know what happened. Per their story after the fact, it all sounds very suspicious and one must conclude that their situation could have been handled better by all involved (including the two men). But this isn’t why I won’t go back to Dominica and why I’m so upset with Atlantis. My reasons are for the many events that occurred while in port last week and a few years ago. Atlantis needs to be more responsible with their planning of ports and their educating of passengers. For example, they made a big deal about telling us not to wear camoflage on Grenada or Barbados. Why didn’t they also tell us what happened before in Dominica as a warning regarding the prevalent mindset of the island’s inhabitants?

    • Jerry 11:12 am on March 27, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      I am sorry, but just being gay does not give us the option to act any way we want. If the ship is docked in Port and you are in full view of everyone, you have an obligation to act in a correct manner. That applies to anywhere you are, even in the states. Public sex is public sex even on a balcony. The moment was so heated that they coulcn’t retire to the privacy of their own cabin. If this were a straight couple doing the same thing, I think authorities would have acted similarly.

      It hasn’t been that long ago that we were persucuted and jailed for just being gay, remember Stonewall. It has only been a short while ago that the sodomy laws were overturned and you could have been arrested in the US. Those of you that have such strong opinions about travel to less tolerant countries, should stay home and look at your neighbors who depending on where you live are equally as less tolerant. I have been cruising for over 19 years and have never had a problem. I was respectful of the culture and people of where ever I traveled. That is the key word to traveling… RESPECTFUL. Too often we as Americans forget that and act as if it is no big deal that others do not think the same way we do so our actions do not have to conform.
      I agree with others who have stated, it is up to us as gay Americans to continue traveling and demonstrate how good it is to have gay visitors.

    • Jim Kelly-Evans 11:55 am on March 27, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      My husband and I had a great time on this cruise, notwithstanding the homophobia some of us encountered in Dominica. We knew that these islands, with the exception of St.; Barth’s, have an anti-gay track record. We booked the cruise nevertheless because we enjoy Atlantis, the Caribbean, and St. Barth’s. While we would have preferred that Atlantis not go to anti-gay destinations, we were hoping that the presence of gay people could perhaps do some good, as long as Atlantis was determined to go there… a mistake. I understand that Rich Campbell is a businessman and that his goal is to run a profitable business. However, I do not think that means that he can’t be more responsible when it comes to the overall welfare of his clientele and that of the gay community as a whole. I found Campbell’s statements about the Dominica incident disingenuous and frankly, extremely disappointing. It is as if he expects us to return to the closet (Malcolm’s advice that “the best way to see Dominica is on an excursion,” which is code for no walking around Roseau hand in hand) so that he (Campbell) need not make any changes to his itineraries. Rich needs to fess up to his responsibility as a businessman who caters to gay men. This means avoiding itineraries with ports that have anti-gay laws on the books, and ports where the local gay community has called for a boycott, e.g. St. Petersburg.

      • Tom 2:55 pm on March 27, 2012 Permalink | Reply

        To be fair (and to agree with Jim), the cruise was an AWESOME experience. The selection of Dominica as one of our stops (and how poorly the staff prepared us for it) was the only disappointment of any merit.

      • Michael Schmidt 11:43 pm on April 26, 2012 Permalink | Reply

        Absolutely WELL said! Rich Cambell has gotten wealthy off of his cruises and he picked a cheap port dock to increase his profits. I like Atlantis Cruises did 3, but your not being 100% honest if you don’t accept that its 99% Men and Men do what Men do. If I had Children, they would not be on an ATLANTIS Cruise, we would book a Disney Cruise or go on one of OUR Family Cruises. I think Atlantis should have coached the passengers as to local law. If your on your Balcony, most people don’t think of being in a jurisdiction. I have seen Gay and Straight People on Cruises having sex on their Balconies. We just don’t book destinations that we think are just TRASH! The Bahamas is on our list of no stops too.

    • Michael Feldman 1:04 pm on March 27, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      Proper behavior is proper behavior, no matter where. That said: we are not second class citizens nor second class human beings and, therefore, do not need to prove to anyone our worthiness, especially by denying that worthiness while enhancing their economy. We certainly don’t need to go to a homophobic, ignorant country to prove anything. The idea that Atlantic would visit any country where homophobia reigns and problems have occurred in the past is unfathomable.

    • Matthew 3:57 pm on March 27, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      When I first saw and heard this, it was said they were found having sex on a beach while they were visiting and later arrested when back on the ship. So really, what is correct as now I see here it was on their balcony. This now conflicts with what I heard and how handled. If they were arrested cause of having male sex with male in their room, then we really have a problem, but if they were out in public, doesn’t matter who it was, that is indecent exposure, but, if they on their own balcany, is that part of the room sort of? lol. But there was also a report that they were originally arrested for having male/male sex which is illegal there, and then changed to the sex in public exposure.

    • Richard 5:34 pm on March 27, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      It’s not a gay issue.. being nude in public is not allowed. Stop being victims and show some class, and wear a swimsuit while you’re docked and on your balcony

    • Greg Meredith 6:21 pm on March 27, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      Funny that Dominica is so anti-gay and so lax when it comes to drugs. I was approached by at least four locals offering to sell drugs as we strolled the town. This is a third world country with a very uneducated population – most of whom live in poverty. I have a hard time understanding why the cruise ships even stop there other than out of some social obligation to help the economy. As far as the arrests-I have a real belief that if they were straight and merely stepped onto their balcony for a brief time they would be arrested. I am sure that this ship was being closely watched by lots of folks on shore. Too bad Atlantis didn’t anticipate this and caution accordingly.

    • jim 6:46 pm on March 27, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      Why is everybody trying to blame Dominica or Atlantis for stopping in Dominica. What those 2 did was wrong and they got caught. It is not the countries fault or the travel company. Gay guys got to wise up and learn you can not have sex where ever you want. They were docked in port and walked on their balcony and had sex of course people were going to see. So the authorities did what they should have arrested. Those two need to learn morals and quit crying because they got caught.

    • Rob 4:45 am on March 28, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      Qwerty has a first-hand account from other passengers that clarifies a lot. They were seen by female pier workers and they were, indeed, having sex.

      http://www.queerty.com/exclusive-very-very-obvious-that-atlantis-cruise-duo-in-dominica-were-having-sex-says-witness-20120327/

    • Tom Schaefer 5:16 am on March 28, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      It continually amazes me how people wont take responsibility for their own actions. In no way is Atlantis responsible for what happens to passengers. The LGBT community has the intelligence to research ports of call and find out what the “current attitude” is towards homosexuality. If they are concerned, then dont book that itinerary. We want respect but it goes both ways….respect local customs. Being on a gay cruise does not mean morales are left at the pier upon sailing. If the passengers were having sex in view of others……give me a break…. Isnt the privacy of a stateroom enough?Whats next, sex in the dinningroom…. I am no prude, but common sense needs to kick in at some point. The world is becoming very scary these days, and protecting oneself while traveling is ones own responsibility and not the cruise line or charter company. Freedom is a precious thing, something many people can only dream about…dont take it for granted, dont think anything goes just because you think you can…there maybe a price. As for not going to ports of call because of “attitudes”……thats a personal choice especially with spending ones hard earned dollars. But if its because you cant do your thing in public because you are on a gay cruise….well remember the cruise is on the ship, not on the pier. Sex out in the open…..straight or gay……why? I can tell you if I had an adopted child onboard and my child was exposed to behavior like that…..id be in their face. Sex between two people is a very personal thing….keep it that way. To everyone, travel and enjoy the experience……and remember how lucky you are to be able to do so…something many people on these islands cant imagine.

    • Jimmi 10:34 am on March 28, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      My partner and I visited the island of Dominica, the day after this incident, on Celebrity Equinox. Our experience (and previous visits to this island) have been nothing but wonderful. In fact I even said to my partner that the people there were one of the most friendly of the islands we have visited. Now that being said, we were not on a gay cruise. But regardless if it was a gay cruise or not, like in any country (including the U.S.) you have to conduct appropriate to your surroundings. I wouldn’t imagine this would be tolerated if it was a straight couple either. I think it wouldn’t matter where this was, if this happened in the US, it would have still been an issue. I just think we as a community should be a little more responsible and respectful of others who don’t necessarily want to see this. If the tables were turned, would you want to see a straight couple doing this? Being gay doesn’t give you the Carte Blanche to act inappropriate. Imagine your parents where on that pier looking at the ship, would you still be acting like this?

      • Michael Schmidt 11:35 pm on April 26, 2012 Permalink | Reply

        If it had been a STRAIGHT Couple banging, they would have hooped and hollered and joined in! Think there nice, hold hands and you will be arrested and if you take your t-shirt off they arrest for indecent exposure.

    • Michael Schmidt 11:33 pm on April 26, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      Here is my comment: #1 I am FURIOUS at Atlantis. They charter the entire ship, THEY BRAG that their ITINERARIES are custom designed by THEM, so if that were true they chose to take a CHEAP DOCK FEE. 8 years ago we went on a Bear Cruise to the Dominican Repubic, the ship shopping consultant didn’t even encourage anyone to get off the ship.

      We did and they wanted us to see a fancy HIGH WALLED development for Rich Americans and of course we wanted a bargain so I bribed the cab driver to take us down town. Filthy, is an understatement.

      If you have never been on an ATLANTIS Cruise, then you have no idea, it is one party after another and the entire ship is FREE! IF you don’t know what I mean, I mean, the guys are doing it every where!

      When you pay 4600.00 to go on a 7 day cruise, you get the impression that ATLANTIS has all under control. I think any one calling someone who is GAY having sex in a public place is either in denial or a PRUDE. We have camper and go to Gay Camprounds all the time. Men folk do it everywhere.

      I have seen many a straight couple screw on their balcony and I bet if that had been the case, whoever complained would have been calling for a crowd for a cheap thrill.

      My fury is directed at Atlantis! They sailed off leaving 2 tourist in their charge in a RAT HOLE Jail. Both exposed by name and where they live. Now I don’t book cruises that go to Domincan Republic, Jamaica or COZUMEL! Our greatest experiences of both friendly islanders have been to St. Thomas, St. Marten, Caraseau and St. Kitts. In fact we were so overwhelmed with the PRIDE FLAGS THAT draped the old fort wall of Caraseau we have went back and vacationed there and plan to retire there. A true European style Island.

      If you want to do drugs, drink and party all night and hook up like a WHITE PARTY, Atlantis is for you. I had just been thinking about booking one next spring but after this, there off my GAYDAR!

  • Randall Shirley 11:22 am on March 12, 2012 COMMENT
    Tags: Love Boat,   

    Heartbreak for the Love Boat 

    The original Love Boat: Pacific Princess

    The original Love Boat: Pacific Princess. Photo: Wikimedia

    According to MSNBC, the original Love Boat will be making a final run to the demolition yard. The ship once known as the Pacific Princess, and used as the backdrop for the TV series, is done.

    This is a heartbreaker for me–and I’m betting for far more of you than ever admit it. The Pacific Princess’ weekly “another run” down the Pacific coast of Mexico was a welcome escape for me when I was a young gay boy growing up in one of the country’s most-conservative places. Each week Captain Stubing, Julie McCoy, Gopher, Doc, and Isaac: Your Bartender, took my young mind far away, into a world of dreams, possibilities, and romance in a way that no other show really could (Fantasy Island did it for a while, but then it got too hocus-pocus and Mr. Roarke seemed to have too many mystical powers).

    The Love Boat ended its TV run in 1986, two years before I convinced my parents to take me on my first cruise. The ship we sailed was the Carla Costa, and little did I know that she may have played a role in the creation of the TV show: it has been written that early scripts for the Love Boat were written on board the Carla.

    Each night I sent my parents to bed, then went out on the deck to watch the stars and the moonlight, dreaming of a passionate romance. At age 23, I wasn’t yet out of the closet, and hardly knew what it meant to have a man flirt with me, but in retrospect I realize I was likely flirted with the entire trip by a very handsome guy who was traveling with a group of friends. We took lots of walks together, went snorkeling together, hung out…if only he’d put a move on me!

    Anyway, RIP original Pacific Princess. You will never be forgotten by this gay guy, nor, I suspect, by thousands and thousands of others who–likely partially because of you–now are frequent cruise passengers all around the globe.

    Click here for the story on MSNBC, and to watch a video of the ship.

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    • Mark & Dale 1:50 pm on March 22, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      Our bit of history with the LOVE BOAT comes from a much different perspective.

      In the mid-1990′s Mark and I had our Seattle condo on the market. This was in the day when a “bidding war” was not unusual in our neighborhood. Imagine our surprise when the buyer turned out to be Lauren Tewes, the actress who played “Julie the Cruise Director” on the series.

      I had an awful (if convenient) case of bronchitis when it came to moving day, so Mark was left with most of the work. He asked me to take one last look in the bedroom to make sure we had everything. Apparently my inspection was a bit lax and/or fuzzy due to massive doses of antibiotics. As it turns out a few days later we got a call from Lauren who said “I’ll bet you two are fun guys….in the master bedroom closet I found a bag containing a feather boa. When can I return it?”

      • Randall 11:25 am on March 27, 2012 Permalink | Reply

        OMG–I would have LOVED that experience. Did you meet her??? She certainly did make me believe a cruise director could do no wrong.

    • John McRae 11:15 am on March 27, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      The Carla Costa was chartered to Princess Cruises in the late 60s and operated as the Princess Carla sailing the Mexican Riviera and perhaps also Alaska. This was prior to the line acquiring the Pacific Princess.

      • Randall 11:22 am on March 27, 2012 Permalink | Reply

        Aha! I love the interactivity of the web…how else would I ever have known that my first cruise was on predecessor to the Love Boat! Thanks, John.

    • Richard McBride 10:05 am on March 28, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      My long time friends and former Princess alumni colleagues are bemoaning this news!

      When I was a lad in Vancouver, I was transfixed by the Love Boat – the theme song and pure glamourous, escapism had me from the get go. Summer in Vancouver would see the cruise ships sail by on their way to Alaska. As they slowly beckoned and teased, I would ponder ” what would it be like to work on a cruise ship……..?”

      Flash forward….. career in musical theatre.. and auditions in Vancouver for Princess Cruises! A large group of Canucks ( I think the first) were hired to do the productions shows AND serve dual duty as Assistant Cruise Directors (with two and a half strips officer status). The youngest was 17.

      In Los Angeles, we learned 4 hour long productions shows in 4 weeks and then off to the ships. The taller dancers were the “chosen ones” sent to the original Pacific Princess, while the shorties were banished to the tiny, old Dawn and the Fair. Never mind! It was one of the most challenging, rewarding experiences of my life; exhausting days of juggling the shows,ship-board activities , land tours, formal cocktail parties, dancing with the ladies -plus the officer responsibilities. All the while living on the ships 6-9 months at a time. Oh the love, lust, excitement & heartache!

      I stayed with Princess traveling the world for 4 years and several different Princess ships. Only fond fond memories remain (oh the stories!) In the early/mid nineties cruising WAS different ( yes… more personal & glamourous) .

      The original Canuck gang are now now planning a 20 year Princess reunion cruise. So it goes, a chapter closes with the extinction of the original Pacific Princess. LOVE… exciting and new!

  • Randall Shirley 2:01 pm on March 11, 2012 COMMENT
    Tags: , Gay cruise Vancouver, ,   

    Great Vancouver Gay Cruise Hotels 

    This page was originally published in May of 2009; Pan Pacific info and hotel photos updated March, 2012

    Cruising out of Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada? Here are four highly recommended, gay-popular hotels. They are listed in the following order

    1. Proximity to cruise terminal, 2. Value with style, 3. Gay Village location, 4. Metrosexual luxury

    1. Pan Pacific Vancouver Roll out of bed at the Pan Pacific and take the elevator to your cruise ship! The Pan is

    The Pan Pacific is at Vancouver’s Canada Place cruise terminal. Photo: Randall Shirley.

    located at Vancouver’s main cruise terminal, Canada Place—overlooking the iconic “five sails.” It’s a very nice property, elegant and understated. Every room has a view, and in Vancouver that generally means ocean and mountains. Vancouver’s downtown shopping district is an easy walk.

      • Bonus in 2012: Luggage transferred to the ship! The hotel is offering a package that includes logding for cruise passengers, and on the morning of your cruise they’ll transfer your luggage to the ship! If you’re sailing from Vancouver’s alternate pier (Ballantyne), the package will transfer you to that pier.
      • Best for: people who are paranoid about missing the ship!
      • Gay Friendly: Very. The hotel has many gay staffers; anyone on staff will be glad to point you to the gay village, bars, and restaurants.
      • Distance to cruise pier: O miles. You’re THERE! Note: Some Vancouver cruises arrive depart at Ballantyne Pier, 1.6 miles away. There is no appropriate hotel near Ballantyne.
      • Distance to Airport: All downtown hotels are approximately 10 miles from the airport.
      • Secret tip: Vancouver’s “downtown” gay bathhouse, Steamworks, is just a few blocks away…if that’s your thing! Or you can just share the hotel pool (great views) with families and flirt with the dads.
      • Extra touch: Map lovers (and what gay isn’t?) will love the lobby fountain which replicates the Pacific Rim—many travelers walk right by, but you won’t.

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    2. The Listel Art lovers take note: the Listel is a gallery/museum experience you’ll never forget, and it’s among Vancouver’s most affordable lodging. The property is a beautifully reno’d Best Western on trendy Robson Street,

    clinging to the edge of Vancouver’s gay-heavy West End. From the moment you enter the lobby you’ll be blown away by the art, curated by fabulous local gallery Buschlen Mowatt.

    But it gets better. 2 floors of the hotel are called “Gallery Floors,” and rooms are filled with original artworks-all are for sale. An additional 2 floors of the hotel are “Museum Floors,” filled with pieces from Vancouver’s glorious Museum of Anthropology.

      • Best for: travelers who love great art and great music.
      • Gay Friendly: Very. One of North America’s gayest neighborhoods is literally out its back door.
      • Distance to cruise pier: 1 mile to Canada Place cruise pier.
      • Distance to Airport: All downtown hotels are approximately 10 miles from the airport.
      • Secret tip: The Listel’s bar/restaurant is among the finest places to hear live Jazz in Vancouver.
      • Extra touch: The hotel is a 10 minute walk from almost everything a gay visitor could want: Stanley Park, Davie Village, Denman Street Dining.

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    3. Sandman Suites on Davie Location, location, location. Smack in the middle of Vancouver’s gay village (Davie Street), this tower was renovated from apartments to hotel, and they did a great job of it. Design is contemporary and nothing too fancy, but plenty comfortable.

      • Best for: travelers who want to be in the middle of the gay “action.” Bars, bookstore, restaurants, all nearby!
      • Gay Friendly: Very, although, strangely, they don’t really market to the gay audience.
      • Distance to cruise pier: 1 mile to Canada Place cruise pier.
      • Distance to Airport: All downtown hotels are approximately 10 miles from the airport.
      • Secret tip: Request a high-floor balconyroom, facing English Bay – the view is enough to make you call U-haul and plan your move to Vancouver!
      • Extra touch: All suites means this hotel is perfect spot for keeping a couple of brews or bottle of white wine in the fridge to entertain fellow cruise passengers you might meet across the street at Vancouver’s “real guy” bar: the Pumpjack, or the stand-and-model bar, 1181.

     

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    4. Opus Hotel Metrosexual to the max, and regularly on “it lists” like Conde Nast, the Opus is a decadent treat for any traveling homo! Rooms are modern design-chic, and come in four different color palates. The Opus is in super-trendy Yaletown, formerly Vancouver’s warehouse district, which reportedly can be a bit noisy at night. Nearby restaurants, shopping, and galleries lean to the pricey side. The gay village is about a 10 minute walk up Davie Street.

      • Best for: Cruisers with a bit of spare cash to spend—metrosexual luxury isn’t cheap (although we’ve recently spotted discounts at around U.S. $200).
      • Gay Friendly: Very. If a hotel could “be” gay based on style and appearance, this is it. But plenty of trendy straights stay there, and the bar is mostly straight (but friendly).
      • Distance to cruise pier: 1.4 miles to Canada Place cruise pier.
      • Distance to Airport: All downtown hotels are approximately 10 miles from the airport.
      • Secret tip: By fall of 2009, Vancouver’s new airport-downtown subway line will be complete. It’s first “downtown” stop will be practically on the Opus’ doorstep.
      • Extra touch: Use the hotel’s website to Concierge Quiz to profile what kind of traveler you are, and then let the staff know. They’ll pick a room based on it, and give you local travel advice.

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    BONUS HOTEL TIP: If you’re staying an extra day at the END of your cruise, and have an early morning flight, consider a night at the Fairmont Vancouver Airport. It’s a really gorgeous, hip hotel, actually in the airport. Facilities are first rate, and the hotel is right above the U.S.-bound departures area. It also has super high-tech glass, so you can watch the planes through the window, but can hardly hear them.

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  • Randall Shirley 8:36 pm on March 10, 2012 COMMENT  

    You dirty, dirty man . . . this Hawaii shore excursion is for you! 

    ATV Kauai

    A stop during the ATV Kauai tour. © Randall Shirley

    My close friends might be surprised to know that I did this excursion, which is doable during a port stop at Lihue, Kauai. But it was recommended by the local tourism agency, Poipu Beach Association, so my partner and I decided to try a few hours in a “mud bug,” basically a two-person dune buggy.

    If your ship will be docked in Kauai for a fairly long day, you’ll have plenty of time to swing over to Poipu and try this excursion. Be sure to book ahead, and let them know you’re on a cruise. Tthey may have suggestions about ground transport, although a rental car will give you ultimate flexibility..

    On the road in Kauai by ATV

    On the road in Kauai by ATV. © Randall Shirley

    Explore a historic sugar cane plantation by ATV. We gave it a shot–and we are so glad we did! The ATV was basically a 2-person dune buggy. We took turns driving, and had a blast. During the tour, it wasn’t the gays who ran off the road and got stuck in the mud–it was a straight couple. There was a LOT of mud, and we got very, very dirty–luckily the tour

    Waterfall stop, ATV Kauai Tour

    Waterfall stop, ATV Kauai Tour. © Randall Shirley

    company, ATV Kauai*, provides clothes and goggles, but you should wear shoes that can be washed. The tour took us from near the beach and into privately owned land which their company has access rights for–the land is owned by Steve Case of AOL fame, who is leaving it alone and choosing not to develop for now. The tour included a lot of information on Kauai’s history, how sugar cane played into things, how and why it ended. Along the way we drove through a very cool tunnel, once used to transport cane between parts of the island, and saw scenery used in such films as Jurassic Park (many movies have been filmed on Kauai: check this list) We also stopped at a waterfall and pool for a picnic lunch. Very fun.**

    *Note: when we did this excursion, we were not in Hawaii on a cruise, but as land-travelers.  For my thoughts on cruising to/from Hawaii, click here.

    **Part of this blog posting originally appeared on Randall’s personal blog, 5faves.com.

    Travel on Kauai was partially courtesy Poipu Beach Assocation. The ATV adventure was courtesy ATV Kauai for the purposes of review. The opinions expressed are my own. To read our full ethics/disclosure statement, click here.

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  • MeetMeOnBoard 5:14 pm on March 6, 2012 COMMENT
    Tags: , Russia, St. Petersburg   

    Russia’s War Against Rainbows: Part II 

    In November of 2011, we informed you about the New York Times article titled “Russia’s War Against Rainbows”.  At that time, the city of St. Petersburg, Russia, was drafting a law to outlaw the ‘propaganda of homosexuality”.  Unfortunately, the lawmakers of St. Petersburg just passed the notorious “propaganda” law to silence any reading, writing, speech or debate on ANYTHING “gay”.

    We realize that MeetMeOnBoard is about cruising and not politics but there are times when we in the LGBT community need to let our voices be heard.  Dale and I always had a dream of visiting St. Petersburg and in 2009 that dream came true on a 7-day Baltic cruise. After years of cruising and visiting hundreds of ports, St. Petersburg is now one of our favorite destinations. The sheer size and grandness of the city and it’s surrounding Palaces is something one doesn’t forget.

    We were fortunate enough to have a lesbian Russian guide who was great fun to spend the day with. She not only gave us a quality tour but also told us what it was like to be gay in Russia. Just think, she would no longer be able to even talk about being lesbian in her own country. If this bill becomes law, I no longer know how comfortable I would be to visit Russia. In fact, most likely it would be a destination Dale and I would no longer choose to visit.

    This fight is NOT over. The bill won’t become law until it’s signed by the Governor.  St. Petersburg is one of Russia’s number one tourist destinations especially in the summer with the influx of cruise ships. That’s why an international storm of bad publicity will force the Governor to think twice about the cost of signing this bill.

    There is less than a week to act: tell the Governor of St. Petersburg that a city that muzzles artists, writers, musicians, citizens and visitors isn’t a city you plan to visit.

    Conservatives in St. Petersburg passed this “gay gag rule” despite condemnation from world leaders — and even the country’s own international treaty obligations respecting freedom of expression. But at the same time, Russian leaders recently announced that they want to invest $11 billion dollars to build their international reputation and attract tourists from around the world. St. Petersburg, Russia’s cosmopolitan “window to the west” is key to that strategy.

    But they can’t have it both ways – a thriving tourist economy can’t coexist with a new law that will muzzle artists, writers, musicians and regular citizens who live in – or visit – the city.

    We want to know what you think. Should we, collectively as gay travelers, visit places where it is illegal to openly be ourselves? Take our quick poll, and please add your comments to the discussion.

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    • Jeremiah 8:21 am on March 7, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      It’s one thing to be anti-gay but this takes it to a whole new level when one tries to silence millions of people. I have also spent time in St. Petersburg and this is very discouraging news. If this act become law, I know that I would choose never to visit the city again and would make sure all my friends were aware of this.

    • Randall Shirley 11:05 am on March 7, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      This is really, really disheartening news from Russia. Suddenly they’re joining the likes of Zimbabwe and Liberia in trying to criminalize gays like you and me–regardless their methodology, that’s what they’re doing. A couple of years ago I posted about countries where it’s illegal to be gay. I never thought we’d see Russia moving toward being on that list. PLEASE get involved by clicking this link and adding your name, and your voice, to help keep St. Petersburg a good place for gays to travel…and to live.

    • stewart 6:19 pm on March 7, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      Added my name, thanks for making us aware. We use your site and have met people “onboard” because of your site. Thanks for the work you do.

    • Dan 10:34 am on March 8, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      I wouldn’t chance holding my husband’s hand in a public square there. St. Petersburg used to be my dream destination…now it’s become my nightmare.

    • Aaron 5:32 pm on March 8, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      Just when I think Russia is slowly moving forward, St. Petersburg decides not to take 2 steps back but rather leap to the end of the line. They’re on the wrong side of history. My hard earned dollars won’t be turning to ruble’s anytime soon.

    • Grant 11:55 am on March 13, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      I travel alot, and have for 40 years. If I refused to visit countries that had policies or laws that I did not respect, I would have missed many great vacations, and been much poorer intellectually for it. Not everthing in life revolves arouond our orientation, and at times it is worth while to put all of that aside and see new areas of the world. In so doing, you can gain a better understanding of how lucky we are, and know that stuggles still exist and often need our help and support. Staying away does nothing to foster a better grasp of other parts of the world. So, book a cruise that stops there, leave the rainbow flag in your cabin window or deck, and enjoy your shore experience.

      • John 4:03 pm on March 13, 2012 Permalink | Reply

        Grant. You bring up valid points but at the same time this law seems to go to extremes. My partner and I have also traveled to many countries where the laws were not friendly to gays and lesbians but most of those countries have never been friendly to LGBT. St. Petersburg could actually be taking rights away. When we were in St. Petersburg, there were several gay organizations and clubs, restaurants, etc. A lesbian we met there said “If you are gay in Russia, St. Petersburg would be the best city to live in”. This new law would make it a crime to hang a rainbow flag, talk about anything gay, meet in public, even read a gay themed book. Frankly, as a gay couple, I don’t know how safe I would feel.

    • Robby 10:08 pm on March 19, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      I visited there last year. It was beautiful and unforgettable. Based on my view of the patrons at the Hermitage, this city is blessed with many of US. The new law will be bad for business and a step backward for this proud country. Having said this, I am unsure how it is possible to stop people from talking just by legislating it…

    • Randall 11:13 am on March 30, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      Here’s a really good article from The Advocate explaining what has happened in Russia, and the possibilities of why. http://www.advocate.com/Politics/Commentary/Russias_Closet_The_Politics_Behind_Russias_Ban_on_Gay_Propaganda/

  • Randall Shirley 5:02 pm on February 23, 2012 COMMENT
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    • Jenn 12:06 pm on February 28, 2012 Permalink | Reply

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    • GayTravel 2:39 pm on March 6, 2012 Permalink | Reply

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