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  • Randall Shirley 2:18 pm on December 14, 2011 COMMENT
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    Shore time craziness — when the lights went out on Oahu. 

    What’s the strangest thing that’s happened to you on shore? For me, it was the lights going out on Oahu. Add to the conversation by commenting at the end of this posting.

    Aloha cruisers.

    Randall Shirley at Honolulu's Aloha Tower

    Randall Shirley at Honolulu's Aloha Tower, cruise ships dock nearby. Photo: Kevin Spragg.

    I’ve just returned from Hawaii. Unfortunately it wasn’t a cruise vacation, but while flying into both Honolulu and Lihue (Kauai) we could see cruise ships in the ports—a Carnival ship at Honolulu and NCL at Kauai.

    Seeing the ships in these far-flung islands reminded me that occasionally there are gay group cruises that visit here—I organized one of them a few years ago (did you know you can organize a group cruise? Check out these tips on how to organize your own group cruise.

    But it also reminded me of a wild experience that happened on shore during that gay group cruise. Our Honolulu port day had been fairly typical, some Waikiki gay beach time at Queens Surf Beach, some Honolulu gay bar time at Hula’s, and of course some shopping. Toward evening as my partner and I began heading back to Aloha Tower and the ship, all the lights went out in Honolulu—we watched in disbelief as neighborhood by neighborhood, the entire city went black. Traffic turned into a mess, so we walked the hour or so to the ship.

    Of course, this was a huge news item worldwide—mostly because U.S. President Barack Obama was on the island at the time. Well, while his compound got it’s power back from generators (most of the island was powerless into the next day) at the cruise terminal of Aloha Tower, things were decidedly dark.

    The cruise terminal on Oahu couldn’t board the ship because the lights and security equipment on the shore side were out. The ship itself was lights-ablaze, but 100s of passengers were stuck on the shore side, temporarily denied boarding. I’m sure safety was the biggest concern—security could be handled onboard the ship if needed.

    Waikiki gay beach area

    Waikiki gay beach area, photo: Randall Shirley

    It seemed to take forever (maybe an hour), but finally someone got really creative—the port workers found some flashlights, and the lighting equipment from the ship’s photo studio was moved onto the shore – strung through the building’s corridors on long extension cords back to the ship. Before we knew it, we were carefully guided back through the cruise terminal and onto the Celebrity Mercury where things were fully powered up. It was strange to look over the side of the ship at the very dark silhouette of Waikiki!

    There’s lots of info about Hawaii on this site! Click here to learn more about cruising gay in Hawaii.

    What strange things have happened to you while cruising? Comment below!

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    • Sophie Needelman 12:06 am on December 21, 2011 Permalink | Reply

      Love this post! Thanks for turning a frustrating situation into an entertaining one!

  • Randall Shirley 11:42 pm on July 22, 2011 COMMENT
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    How to plan your own group cruise, Part 3: Shore excursions 

    Planning your own shore excursions

     If you want to organize a group cruise and perhaps sail free, it is possible! If you do it right, you may end up several free cruise cabins! Starting last week, and continuing over the next three weeks, I’m providing a series of tips for planning your own group cruise with specific sensibilities for the gay cruise traveler.

    One of the best things about having your own group on a cruise is the fun of shore excursions – planning that time together*.

    It’s easy to find things to do on the ship, and a sea day or two on any itinerary tends to be a favorite of many gay cruise passengers.

    But what about things to do in port? Everyone knows that the cruise lines offer pre-arranged shore excursions, and sometimes they’re the right fit for you. But when you’re travelling with a group, a whole new world opens up.

    Maui Little Beach is essentially a gay beach in Hawaii

    Maui Little Beach is essentially a gay beach in Hawaii.

    On our group cruise to Hawaii, we knew we wanted to spend time at Maui’s Little Beach – a famous clothing-optional spot with a popular gay beach area. So, we rented three cars, and we all went to Little Beach. Having several cars gave us the flexibility for the group to split into smaller groups later in the day as some people grew tired of sand ‘n surf and wanted to go shop or eat. We simply split the cost of the rental cars among all members of the group. It’s worth paying a bit extra (if required) to add an extra driver, and the insurance might be a good idea.

    Horseback riding, Finca Daniel, Costa Rica is a great self-arranged shore excursion

    Horseback riding, Finca Daniel, Costa Rica is a great self-arranged shore excursion. © Randall Shirley

    Zip Line in Costa Rica, Finca Daniel over canyons and waterfalls

    Zip Line in Costa Rica, Finca Daniel. © Randall Shirley

    On my Panama Canal cruise, I arranged a Puntarenas, Costa Rica zipline shore excursion for 16 people. It was not available through the cruise—in 2004 zipline and canopy tours were still relatively new. The excursion was a full day at a ranch / coffee plantation / canyon, and they picked us up at the pier. The day included horseback rides, amazing ziplines, learning about coffee growing, a picnic in the jungle, and more…all for just over $100/person. It was exceptional value, and we all had a blast. Back on the ship it was very clear that we had waaaaay more fun that day than most other passengers. As organizer, I was offered a discount for my own excursion (not free, but saved a bit).
    Learn more about this type of shore excursion.

    How do you find shore excursions? Easy. Check guidebooks and websites for the destinations you’ll visit. Call or email ahead to tour providers you’re interested in, and let them know you’re bringing a group onshore from a cruise ship. Ask what they can provide (pier-side pickup is important!), and what they can do to help create a great experience for you. Negotiate on price.

    Risks.

    • I suppose there’s the possibility that a provider won’t show up. It might be worth checking with the city or region’s tourism office about the reputation of providers.
    • The chance that you miss the ship. It’s crucial that you inform the tour provider of your ship’s required all-aboard time. But even so, if something goes wrong (a van breaks down, unexpected road closure, etc.), and you miss the ship, you will be responsible for getting yourselves to the next port.
    • Make sure everyone in your group is aware of these risks!

    Tip: Make sure your group members offer an appropriate gratuity at the end of the excursion!

    Tip: If your group is big enough to fill a van or even a bus, and you are interested in having the cruise line arrange your excursions for you (which will qualify you for their various guarantees—like the ship won’t leave without you if the excursion was booked by the cruise line), ask your travel agent to look into it—or to put you directly in contact with the shore excursions company who handles the cruise line’s onshore tours. Be sure to ask for discounts and a couple of free tour passes for yourself (no promises, but you never know).

     Next week: dining together on ship and ashore

    *In fact, that’s one of my favorite things about connecting with other gay cruise passengers via MeetMeOnBoard.com before a cruise…the chance to plan shore time together.

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  • Randall Shirley 12:56 pm on October 7, 2009 COMMENT
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    Cruise Ports of a Lifetime? 

    Randall above Rio de Janeiro, Brazil; truly a "place of a lifetime"
    Your Editor above Rio de Janeiro, Brazil; truly a cruise destination of a lifetime!

    I just got my new National Geographic Traveler magazine (October 2009), and they’re reviving the 50 places concept. It’s been 10 years since they first created their list, and now they’ve added another 50–so technically it’s their list of 100 places of a lifetime.

    I’ve pulled out the places from their list that you can visit by cruise ship, and have bolded the spots I’ve personally visited. (Note: I’ve only kept places that are actual ports or easy shore excursions, not nearby major cities).

    In the future we’ll do a survey on your favorite cruise places of a lifetime. Now, what do you have to say about the Nat Geo choices?

    • Athens, Greece
    • Barcelona, Spain
    • Dublin, Ireland
    • Hong Kong
    • Istanbul, Turkey
    • New York, New York
    • Rio de Janeiro, Brazil
    • San Francisco, California
    • St. Petersburg, Russia
    • Tokyo, Japan
    • Vancouver, Canada
    • Venice, Italy (soon, I hope!)
    • Aleutian Islands, Alaska
    • Amazon Forest
    • Antarctica
    • Arnhem Land, Australia
    • Auyuittuq National Park, Canada
    • Galapagos Islands
    • Papua New Guinea’s Coral Reefs
    • South Georgia Island, South Atlantic Ocean
    • Venezuela’s Tepuis
    • Aitutaki, Cook Islands
    • Amalfi Coast, Italy
    • British Virgin Islands
    • Fernando de Noronha Archipelago, Brazil
    • Greek Islands
    • Hawaiian Islands
    • Kerala, India
    • Lord Howe Island, Australia
    • Mayreau, St. Vincent & the Grenadines
    • Molokai, Hawaii
    • Pacific Islands
    • Osa Peninsula, Costa Rica
    • Salina, Italy
    • Seychelles
    • Torres del Paine, Chile
    • Yap’s Outer Islands, Micronesia
    • Asturias, Spain
    • Azure Coast, Turkey
    • Canadian Maritimes
    • Cordillera Terraces, Philippines
    • Danang to Hue, Vietnam
    • Gaspe Peninsula, Canada
    • Montenegro
    • North Island, New Zealand
    • Norway’s Coast
    • Easter Island, Chile
    • Karnak, Egypt
    • Leptis Magna, Libya
    • Pyramids, Egypt
    • Sagrada Familia, Spain
    • Vatican City

    Of course, not all these interesting spots are fully gay-friendly…I’m interested in your take on that, too!

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  • Randall Shirley 7:37 pm on December 30, 2008 COMMENT
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    High seas and a gay old time! 

    Your Editor in the Celebrity Mercury onboard theatre

    Your Editor in the Celebrity Mercury onboard theatre

    The sounds of ukuleles fades farther away as the Mercury continues toward Ensenada, Mexico. We’ve got 72 hours at sea before that happens.

    Tonight is Celebrity’s version of Dancing with the Stars, and two gay guys are participating—one is our pal who owns a dance studio in Canada, the other is one of the onboard professional dancers. Unfortunately, they’re not dancing together…

    We’ve continued to enjoy getting to know our new MeetMeOnBoard.com pals Mike & Joey. I think I told you that because of our MMOB pre-cruise connection, we all arranged to sit together at dinner. Nice.

    Signing off…the string quartet is about to play in the Cova Café and I want to enjoy them…cruising is great. Book one—prices are super-low right now! And invite me along!!

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  • Randall Shirley 10:34 pm on December 23, 2008 COMMENT
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    Gays at Sea…somewhere near Hilo 

    Your Editor and Partner at Sea

    Your Editor and Partner at Sea

    It’s Christmas Eve eve, and onboard the Celebrity Mercury plenty of creatures are stirring as we finally feel Hawaiian breezes blow across the decks.

    The gay guys are all having plenty of fun. Sun, gym, sublime food, dancing, connecting. Gay staffers have noticed us and are warming up. (As yet, haven’t met any lesbians).

    It’s all good. In fact, it’s better than good. It’s fantastic. It’s why I continue to believe cruising is the best vacation value on earth.

    We’re enjoying getting to know our MMOB pals Mike & Joey. And all the other gays we’ve met seem pretty keen on learning more about how to use the site. Perhaps they’re just a little jealous that Mike & Joey already had good dining partners lined up before the cruise.

    Meanwhile…happy KwanChrisMakkuh. I’m off to find a fruity drink and flirt with a hot homo. Wish you were here. Loving this cruise!

    Randall

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    • Cruise Ships 2:45 pm on January 2, 2009 Permalink | Reply

      The most important is to have fun with the right people, and when you are on board of such cruise ship, this is normally expected. I wanted to be there, but unfortunately failed

  • Randall Shirley 1:46 pm on December 21, 2008 COMMENT
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    We have officially Met On Board! Gay cruise passengers connect… 

    Celebrity Mercury

    Celebrity Mercury

    Welcome aboard the M/V Celebrity Mercury! It’s 7:20 a.m. on our second morning at sea, and the ship’s position is someplace between California and Hawaii:

    Within minutes of boarding the Mercury in San Diego on December 19, and during our first wander around the 1,800 passenger boat, Kevin (my partner) pointed at two guys and said, “aren’t those the guys we’ve been connecting with through MeetMeOnBoard (MMOB)?”

    Voilá, we dashed across the atrium to greet Mike and Joey—a couple from Anaheim, who we had indeed already “met” through MMOB.

    Hello handshakes have now been replaced with friendly hugs…even on a mainstream cruise, and we’re enjoying getting to know these new and very interesting friends.

    Meanwhile, our group of 9 gay men has started wearing our matching t-shirts (The Rainbow Mounties), and people are noticing us—great ice breakers.

    Last night was the first Friends of Dorothy party, and about 30 gay men showed up, all in suits and ties or tuxes—guys from all over the U.S. and as far away as Germany and England. Cool.

    I’m telling them about MMOB, and perhaps you’ll meet some of them on a future cruise. This is a great website, and gay cruisers seem to instantly love the idea. Please tell your friends about it and encourage them to sign up.

    Now, I’m off for a second cup of coffee…then I’ll go see if I can wake Kevin up.

    Key observations thus far:

    • Couples who want one bed should clearly state to their cabin attendant that they are a couple. Mike and Joey say their attendant keeps asking them if he should split the beds. Meanwhile, our attendant (Luis from Honduras) clearly knows who we are. The fact is not all cabin attendants immediately “get it.”
    • Friends of Dorothy should be asked for immediately after boarding the ship. Call the Cruise Director’s office and ask if they automatically organize a FOD on your ship. If not, request it
    • Bringing your own booze, while it’s officially against cruise regulations, a lot of people have successfully smuggled plenty-o-booze on board. We’ll look at how this is done in a future article. After all, who makes a cocktail better than us gays!
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    • Cruise Ships 2:48 pm on January 2, 2009 Permalink | Reply

      Nice ship. I have been once on Celebrity Equinox and the ship is really fantastic and so relaxing.

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